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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear
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I agree with this. Empathy is essential. I saw a t in real life for a long time who decided he didn’t like me any more. I wish I’d known in advance how Narcissistic he was  . I blame myself for being so stupid and gullible. I wasn’t making “enough” progress either, I “should” have left despite the fact he encouraged the transference more than was healthy
Now they only prescribe meds which I’m allergic to  
Trace, it doesn’t sound to me that you have adequate support. A pdoc isn’t enough  |
Thanks Fuzzy. It's hard to know when a T is not the right one sometimes until it's too late. I had one of those myself. Being relatively new to therapy I really didn't know what to expect. Didn't know what to say, what not to say, what they needed to know to help, these were strangers which made it even harder to talk to them. So you were not at all stupid to what was going on. You were there because you wanted help from a stranger and it just took some time for the T to show their real colors. It wasn't you.
Can you get your meds changed?
I don't know if you are from the USA or not. Veterans have the VA-Veterans Administration who provide care for veterans. Mostly people who do not have private insurance, because if you had private insurance you wouldn't go to the VA. just because of the paperwork and lack of care resources.
I agree that a Pdoc is not enough support, but I didn't know if I was just being biased and wrong with that feeling. When the group T comes back I will ask her to help me with finding the right resources.
Thanks again for responding.
