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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
I do NOT see my T as a parent or a partner, or anything like that. I don't have transference with her. I simply want to know if she loves me.
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But the question is why is that important to you? Why does it matter if she loves you or not? I'm certainly not here to put words in your mouth or mischaracterize you. I'm absolutely saying bring up what is going on emotionally with you. All that I am trying to bring up, is that the underlying desire of wanting, in itself, to know whether your T loves you or not could be the real issue that needs to brought up. I'm not saying you are crazy or bad or anything of the sort. Many people want seek from their T the same answer you do, but what I am saying that need is often due to some issue that needs to be addressed. Feelings of worthlessness, abandonment, etc.