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Old Oct 08, 2017, 09:26 PM
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Originally Posted by stopchewinggum View Post
But the question is why is that important to you? Why does it matter if she loves you or not? I'm certainly not here to put words in your mouth or mischaracterize you. I'm absolutely saying bring up what is going on emotionally with you. All that I am trying to bring up, is that the underlying desire of wanting, in itself, to know whether your T loves you or not could be the real issue that needs to brought up. I'm not saying you are crazy or bad or anything of the sort. Many people want seek from their T the same answer you do, but what I am saying that need is often due to some issue that needs to be addressed. Feelings of worthlessness, abandonment, etc.
Oh, well you got me on the abandonment part...lol. That is probably my biggest issue. And we are working on that. Honestly though, I don't know why I want to know. I know she cares about me. I know she goes above and beyond for me. Maybe I'm curious because of ex-T. That's still an issue for me too. Maybe because I don't know what it feels like to be loved? Loved by someone other than my fiance, dog, and family. I don't know.
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