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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
Oh, well you got me on the abandonment part...lol. That is probably my biggest issue. And we are working on that. Honestly though, I don't know why I want to know. I know she cares about me. I know she goes above and beyond for me. Maybe I'm curious because of ex-T. That's still an issue for me too. Maybe because I don't know what it feels like to be loved? Loved by someone other than my fiance, dog, and family. I don't know.
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And that is the only point I was trying to make. I wasn't trying to make you feel bad. Sure if you need to straight up ask your T if they love you, so be it. But it may be in your interest, to bring up all these things contributing to the importance of this need as well. Then again, I'm sure this is something that is an ongoing thing you're working on in therapy.