I think there are different levels of trust. 1 minor-where you listen to people but don't absorb what they are saying but appear to be. Disconnected. 2-medium- you listen to them intently and have some feelings with this person. But not enough to want to be close to them. 3. more so- You openly listen with a feeling this person really cares and is speaking from their heart. You embrace the communication.

Yes, trust has been violated many times but a lot of times that was my fault as well.