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Oct 09, 2017, 01:19 AM
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Member Since: Nov 2013
Location: US
Posts: 9,023
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Here's what I wrote (and sent):
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I have re-written this paragraph so many times now. I have another personal question for you. I'm scared more of your reaction to the question than the answer. However, I don't think you'll be totally surprised by the question. I've thought about how to word this: be direct, generalize, or beat around the bush. I think I need to be direct. Our relationship is based on honesty, right? And I'm supposed to be open with you? And you know how to navigate conversations with me. So if your answer hurts me, we should be able to work through it and everything will be okay. Also, I'm writing it to you so I don't catch you off-guard. There's two parts to this. Is it okay for a therapist to love a client? Do you love me? I ask for a few reasons: because some of the people on the forum say their therapist tell them they love them, because [ex-T] basically said she loved me, and because I'm curious about how you feel about me. Let's not discuss this till after the wedding though in case I get hurt by your answer. I don't want to be depressed before the wedding. Please don't be mad at me for asking!
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