Perna..... a very cool perspective. Gives me a fresh understanding. New point of reference. Applies universally. Can maybe stop those imaginings from replacing one's reality. From obsessive rethinking and regretting actions and presuming another's reactions and thoughts. Thought provoking viewpoint with many applications.

As caregivers and as human beings we are challenged to balance the drive to preserve life and to honour death. We experience death when we die. Before then we are driven to preserve life and left to image death.