MF,

Sounds like you can do a lot better for yourself! I'm not sure how long you've been with him but sometimes we forget who we are when in a controlling relationship. Personally based solely on the little information you've shared... I'd recommend a clean break. Only consider the possibility of a friendship down the road a bit. Sounds to me like he may have a problem with taking NO for an answer. He may continue to pursue you with his sights on the bedroom for a while.

Maybe take this opportunity to focus on yourself, reflect on your loss, and remind yourself that you are a whole and a complete person without him.

Chalk this relationship up as a learning experience. Now you know a few things what you don't want in a partner :-)