I want to thank you both for your replies above-i was
very touched.
After a serious email assault by her today:
she told me to 'Walk Away" amongst other things..
I was/am ready to..but you've given me some hope.
And I feel for what you've both been thru too.
At this point we are far from each other-i dont feel in any danger-
but i do have a family to look out for..not sure what to do..
Not sure how 'literally' to take her threats or requests..
if I bring up Therapy or try to help or be too kind she will first consider the idea..THEN..the next day will trash it and me...
Ive blocked her email for now--i jus need time to ponder all this..
I so care about her & I'm certainly not perfect-with a history of alcohol-far behind me now tho...my buttons do get pushed tho..
i wonder how i could turn her towards getting help..
what have you all done??
thanks so much! I mean that.
M
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