Perhaps because of what I said for my case: that often they express being upset and hurt but indirectly, not with those words or similar. I cannot imagine that a T who has conflicts with a client, intense negative reactions etc, never feels hurt and it never shows. They are not made of steel. With the one of mine I said it did not happen, we simply never really had ruptures and fights - easy that way. I imagine that few Ts would tell a client "you hurt me", it probably shows more through their complex reactions.