I voted yes. I feel terrible about what I said to T once. It was about her being thin. I was angry and left a mean message on her voicemail. She told me that it hurt her, and asked why I felt I had to say it. She told me she has feelings; she's human. I was glad she told me because it made me realize that just because she's a T and I pay her, that doesn't mean I can say hurtful things to her, about her. I care very much about her feelings.

While I didn't hurt her, when I told T that I drove past her house, she was upset, and even said she was scared. I felt very bad about that and promised never to do it again. This was the second time, in her other house. The first time I didn't promise.