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Originally Posted by magicalprince
I guess I mean, it's like he's the only man that is in your life on your own terms. When people have abandonment fears it can feel like they will have to compromise their own wants and needs or boundaries, in order to keep others involved in their life. But then, the reason that T would feel different is because of the sense that he is there for you, while not treating you badly or betraying your trust in the way the men in your life may have done.
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That is so TRUE! I've always felt I had to compromise my own wants and needs and boundaries so I wouldn't have to lose my partner. I had to put up with his mum seriously being horrible to me and his family and that it was my fault and it was all in my head.
I recalled once I went over there because at that time his parents were working overseas and the father was kind to buy me a plane ticket to go over there. But gosh! It was a nightmare with his mum!
I was so anxious I lost huge amount of weight, I use to cry in the shower because that was only private place I could cry.
Thank you for saying that, that is a huge insightful for me.