I know exactly where you are coming from! In my situation, I am just sticking to what I know is right, and the rest of the population can just deal with it this time. I am usually the one to give in, and try to make peace for everyone else when I haven't done anything. Like doing family meals to try to get others back together who are angry at each other. Sorry, not this time!! I have good longtime friends to stick by me, and I don't need the messes that others are making at this stage in my life.