My daughter is very controlling, and she has practically ruined two stepsons' lives, and her 21 year old sons'. No one can understand why her husband puts up with her. Then, there is the 7 year old who will be the same if she doesn't pull out of this. He is getting way out of control. She wants to tell everyone what to do and when every step of the way no matter what we are all doing together. She is losing her family and blaming all of us for it. You will be o.k. now that you realize what is going on and can deal with it. What a good friend to try to talk to you and be honest and help you! You will work out of this o.k.! This is something my daughter has never figured out. When we are together as a family or any group we are in, she gets real loud, and bossy, and has to be heard and seen. It gets ugly!!!