Yes, I believe I am the

As I've mentioned before:
I made the current one cry and (all in her words) feel attacked, like she's walking on eggshells, being reamed out etc.

The former one cut to the chase and pretty much accused me of being abusive.

With perhaps a little stretch of the imagination, all of those things could constitute "hurt"?

(And.......now I feel -- all over again -- the urgent need to find a T who won't be so easily hurt by my crap. Sigh.)