their's a lot of times where I go to post something and think, how stupid.. no, i'll just not post it

the biggist struggle for me though is knowing who's going to reply, and what people are going to say.

their's plenty of threads i've started where I never even went back to view the replies, that, or i've read who's below me, and wondered if I should read that reply or not.

what I am trying to do more of is aproach individual members and talk to them via private mail and build friendships (individual friendships), since my support network is quite limited right now

and wouldn't you know it

first person I messaged is a actually from the UK same as me