Thank you, Heartbroken and everyone. I haven't brought it up yet, but I intend to ask him to go to marriage counseling. He is in individual counseling right now for anxiety. We actually bonded together in the first place because we both have "problems." I do need to be nice to him because he has a heart condition as well as anxiety.

We had a stressful Christmas because my husband is a recovering alcoholic - nondrinker for 13 years. Most of his family still drinks and he hates it. And I just hate crowds. (He is from a family of 10 children). So that gathering was difficult to deal with.

He will probably agree to marriage counseling, I think. I haven't talked to him about it yet. Maybe in a little while after we are relaxing. Thank you.