That is so TRUE! I've always felt I had to compromise my own wants and needs and boundaries so I wouldn't have to lose my partner. I had to put up with his mum seriously being horrible to me and his family and that it was my fault and it was all in my head.

I recalled once I went over there because at that time his parents were working overseas and the father was kind to buy me a plane ticket to go over there. But gosh! It was a nightmare with his mum!

I was so anxious I lost huge amount of weight, I use to cry in the shower because that was only private place I could cry.


Thank you for saying that, that is a huge insightful for me.