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Old Oct 11, 2017, 06:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Shazerac View Post
I see no reason to even try to reconcile with abusive people. I also see no reason to have empathy either. Is someone telling you that you need to do This? Or is this an inner dialogue?
A therapist I paid for told me he had no empathy for me

I questioned this. He said I didn’t “have empathy for the parental units”’

Uh.

I thought the therapy was to help me at least like myself, not to suddenly be told I deserved no empathy or care from a paid therapist, and for that reason ... and that I was “unendearing” ...

Such a sweet man. sarcasm.

I’m not consulting that therapist now.

But his crap and abuse is part of my “inner critic” at times
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