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Originally Posted by Shazerac
I see no reason to even try to reconcile with abusive people. I also see no reason to have empathy either. Is someone telling you that you need to do This? Or is this an inner dialogue?
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A therapist I paid for told me he had no empathy for me
I questioned this.

He said I didn’t “have empathy for the parental units”’
Uh.
I thought the therapy was to help me at least like myself, not to suddenly be told I deserved no empathy or care from a paid therapist, and for that reason

... and that I was “unendearing”

...
Such a sweet man.

sarcasm.
I’m not consulting that therapist now.
But his crap and abuse is part of my “inner critic” at times