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Originally Posted by SorryShaped
It's just built-in, caring about others.
Here's the "strangeness" that will put some people off:
I sense others' emotional states just by being near them. It's called being a sensitive. I feel their pains and best, their joys. I don't even need to see them to know what's there. It's a very accurate "gift." I quotated that because it's very distressful most times, feeling their states. Most people spend most of their lives in pain. I am also gifted with the ability to draw people out, them revealing what's inside their shells. I already know how you're doing if I'm anywhere near you. Nobody has been able to hide it, ever since it started in January. It's always spot on. I only wish I could selectively turn it off, but sometimes, during celebrations, as few as there are, it's awesome to feel everyone all at once. It makes savasana absolutely amazing. But, my own states I get to feel in magnitudes greater. I feel my own pain much more that I think I should. It's a cycling loop. However joys are so much stronger too
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Some people are definitely more empathetic than others and non-verbals can certainly give off strong vibes. That being said I think it is almost delusional to think that you can tell how people are feeling just by being around them. Yes, there are hints and indicators based on non-verbals but you are not a mind reader. And that is what this sounds like to me - mind reading. You may have these strong "senses" but please know that you may not always be right. Even this post put me off a bit, to be honest. I would much more likely open up to someone who doesn't pretend to know it all. If you already know how I'm feeling, why would I need to elaborate further?