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Originally Posted by Patagonia
I feel we all have the right to judge another. It's inherent as primates, we size each other up. We compare. We judge.
Now what we do with that judgement.....is another story.
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Yes we all judge. I try (but sometimes fail) to keep my judgements to myself because it makes me feel so angry when I feel like I am being judged in a negative way. I try to keep negative comments to myself. This is easy to do with strangers and acquaintences--harder to do with my H and children. It makes the world a better place when we are able to see the positive side of things.
Not all lies are bad in this regard. I like it when my H tells me I look good even when I look like crap!