I feel like such a pos sometimes. I got triggered on another board (not anyone’s fault.. my triggers are my own) and posted something that probably seems “selfish” ...

I’m conflicted about the whole forgiveness of abusers thing, I wish i could forgive them. But on the other hand i forgave a relative again and again and they continued to crap on me (and I was perceived as,...well I’ve already said I was the “family” scapegoat

Thank you to everyone here for being so supportive of the bear