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Old Oct 12, 2017, 11:07 AM
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Originally Posted by Hopingtrying View Post
Yes we all judge. I try (but sometimes fail) to keep my judgements to myself because it makes me feel so angry when I feel like I am being judged in a negative way. I try to keep negative comments to myself. This is easy to do with strangers and acquaintences--harder to do with my H and children. It makes the world a better place when we are able to see the positive side of things. Not all lies are bad in this regard. I like it when my H tells me I look good even when I look like crap!
I don't look for either side but do praise when they are being positive. Yes, that's judging, but I judge the actions, and not the person. You trapped me there, eh?
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