Champion, you used "ish" pounds and do not know your girlfriend's actual weight or height, or appear to know what a healthy target is for the weight and height of a woman of your girlfriend's stature and weight. That would make me sit up and look at my own thoughts and beliefs if I did not know my significant other in such a personal way. I do not understand how one can attempt to "dictate" to another, not having the facts in the first place?