I thought it must have been a typo.... thought you must have meant 240 lbs. Fortunately others have vented so maybe I can temper my immediate reaction of shock with some enquiry about what's really turned you off this girl.

I mean if you don't have common interests thats one thing but compromising the relationship over 15 or 20 pounds suggests to me there is something else going on.

If you are so focused on the weight issue and all of your suggestions for outings are fitness related then that will be a turn off for any girl. I love to hike and bike and run around on the soceer field but if my man were to suggest it with the intentions of it taking some weight off then I might not be so keen to put on my running shoes. You may have sabbotage your own good intentions with a lack of style and tact.

It sounds like your girlfriend my be depressed. It wouldn't surprise me if she were given how she's being given cause to think she doesn't measure up for you. A hopeless place many women find themselves in trying to please a man who may not be easy to please... who is caught up in superficial things.

What kept you together for 2 years? Perhaps focusing on those things could help you get the passions back. She deserves better from you. You are slowly breaking her spirit.

I think you posed a question on this forum that came from your heart and I'm believing you don't want to cause hurt for your girlfriend. You really need to rethink what it is that is truly bothering you about the relationship. I don't think it is about her extra weight. She deserves your honesty.

Take care.....