My ex lost interest in me when a thyroid conditions caused a dramatic weight loss. It was the beginning of the end of our relationship. He used to nag on me to sheed the 20 or 30 extra pounds I was carrying until twice that amount fell off due to illness. Not a pretty picture. I'd do anything to have those extra pounds back.

A 53 year old, 5'1" skinny woman with loose skin hanging from her bones and no boobs or booty to speak of anymore.... looks a lot older, less healthy and she is far less attractive than a 53 year old chubby woman with curves and soft bumps here and there and rosey cheeks to match her smiling disposition. I pretty much force feed myself now just to keep from loosing more weight. Never thought I'd grow up to be fighting to stay above 100 pounds.

Health yes.... vanity no!! It a matter of perspective.