Oh boy I could go on forever about a number of former bosses. The most recent bad experience my boss was finally let go. He took credit for what I did, blamed me for his mistakes, left my personnel record in a pile of paperwork in a desk drawer that a co-worker found after he left. Most of my meetings with him triggered panic attacks.
I worked for a small business just prior to this job (I've been at my current job going on 13 years) and he would spy on me, demanded that I support him in his decisions, even when I didn't agree with them. When his decisions cause a near stop in cash in-flow and he couldn't make payroll, he told all the employees that he did what he did because I recommended it (I very strongly discouraged him from making this move). He committed bank fraud several times and was known to rip off customers. I was so glad to leave that place. I took a pay cut to get out of there.
My current job.... well one of our division managers, who manages a majority of our projects just gave notice. Our division chief has an issue with drinking during the work day (I smelled alcohol on his breath the morning before last at 9 am, and a meeting I had with him yesterday he seemed confused at times, had a hard time following our conversation, he's been seen staggering in the parking lot several times. I took all of this with a grain of salt until I witnessed it for myself). The manager that gave notice would be the logical choice to run the division if he gets canned. So basically we are in deep do-do right now. It's a very volatile situation. I don't want him to get fired, the two logical people who could temporarily run our division until they found a permanent replacement are both back stabbers. At least it's Friday.
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"Do you know what’s really scary? You want to forget something. Totally wipe it off your mind. But you never can. It can’t go away, you see. And… and it follows you around like a ghost."
~ A Tale of Two Sisters (Janghwa, Hongryeon) (2003)
"I feel like an outsider, and I always will feel like one. I’ve always felt that I wasn’t a member of any particular group."
~ Anne Rice
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