What you're doing is attention-seeking. You are acting like a child.

Wanting this much attention is not "good intentions." It is selfish.

As I said before, there is an element of "aggression" in your behavior. You are ready to practically demand that this supervisor acknowledge your birthday. She doesn't have to. But you are determined to have your way. (You are trying to "trap" your supervisor.) This is becoming a power struggle with you on the jobsite.

Basically, you are refusing to take redirection. And you've been doing it over and over with a series of different people. And you try and dishonestly use words to dress up the behavior as something different from what it is. Any good supervisor is generally looked up to by those whom she supervises. You are wanting her to "mother" you.

You are at this job to learn appropriate behavior. (It sounds to me like a sheltered worksite for people with special needs.) If you refuse to do learn, they will discharge you and give your spot to someone else.