I met my husband when I was manic, he was manic too. We were both undiagnosed. We both knew the other was "crazy". I even told him if he ever hospitalized me against my will that would be the end of us. I had no filter the first couple of weeks neither did he. Within a month we were engaged and trying for a baby. (it felt a lot longer then that.) We've been together 17 years. It's hard, he's mostly on the depressive side and I'm mostly on the manic side but we mostly make it work.