Well, now you know who they are and how they feel about you. That might be harder to stomach than the bacon. But if i were you, i would take it into consideration the next time i need to make any decisions about my future. Like, how much will their values or desires affect my choices from now on? I wish i had known this about my parents - or rather, had the guts to accept it - and then realized yeah, i am REALLY on my own, and take that for the gift it is.