Hmmm.... are you seeking someone that you want to aspire to be like?

What if you came up with your own goals, just for yourself, that you designed only for you and the person you want to become?

Like there may be traits that another person has, that you wish you had yourself -- you can certainly learn to adopt those traits to become more of the person you want to be. And you can do this without obsessing over someone or being intrusive and in their personal space.

When we admire someone, we can certainly compliment them on a job well done at work, and that is always nice for people to hear. But that is about as far as it really should go. Still, you don't want to intrude on people's personal space in even subtler ways...