have you tried topamax? I love it completely. Its a mood stabilizer. Its used for epilepsy. You say nothing feels real and you hear your mother. I used to have deja vus a LOT before i got on topamax, ESPECIALLY at family dinners, ie under stress? So like what is epilepsy and deja vus but your brain firing electrically uncontrollably or spasmodically? Mine was a case of not realizing i had a mild case of epilepsy until the symptoms stopped (i had jacksonian marches all my life) after i got on topamax.