I think as we get older there is probably grief about not being as connected to those we love. But I think it is better to try to accept it, and the sadness that goes with it, and move on. Although it is true that having enough money makes life easier, there are a lot of things in life that are free. Like the library. Walks in the sunshine. Connecting with those we meet on a daily basis...maybe a neighbor walking their dog...or the clerk at the grocery store. Going to church. Doing a little yoga. Writing.

My sibling with the least resources is to one who is most generous towards me...with phone calls, and sending me books, magazines, and little gifts. Always remembers me on my birthday and holidays. The siblings who are well off never send a card or call. I live at a distance from all of them...but I am certain if I lived five minutes away from the ones who are self-absorbed and neglectful...it would be the same story. It does sting to think about it...but I am not them and I am glad of it.