I was at the ink-store yesterday for a piercing evaluation and had to expose my junk for said evaluation. I thought that the 45-year-old (?) female was attractive and smart and was easy to talk to whilst doing the exam (I had brought a male friend along) and after I had zipped back up, she gave me a pat and said, “that’s a nice cock and I should know given the fact that I’m the expert in male genital piercer around here.”

Or shite like that - spread out over give-and-take conversation - but “nice cock” is an absolute quote.

No, no way that she was flirting or anything - she’s 100% no meat on her tacos - so the comment was just an observation, I suppose.

Here’s the thing: I’ve always thought my genitalia worthy of even my own admiration even before receiving positive comments.

Now, yes, we men have all of our genitalia exposed and, were I to guess, I would say that 75% were in the ‘normal and nice’ range, with 60% of that 75% feeling their genitalia too small.

Give a man a foot and he’ll want 13 inches;

Now to the vulva... and beyond.

My experiences have been that 50-70% of women feel that her exposed vulva is bad. Tiny labia minora that only engorges during sex, large labia, and the most common: it’s just ugly and it’s smelly.

And I’ve known others, including myself, who are so removed from the former Body Dysmorphic Disorder types that we are not simply pleased with our genitalia, and function of same, that we are proud of that which we have inherited.

I’d like to know if there are others who are genital-proud or those who would fit with considering your own genital-comfortable.

Or otherwise.