haha! MF! I just got that.

sorry im kind of late in responding to your post and im sorry to hear about your father.

sounds to me like he has many issues to deal with before he can really be a loving person. he does just enough to keep you around for sex but not enough to show you that he cares.

you should read this book called The Road Less Traveled. In the section on Love, it speaks directly about people who treat their significant others like that. Maybe if you had been together longer and he showed any want to change his ways it might be different. Its hard to watch someone not be able to mature past a certain point but they can only change and grow as a person if they truly want to. If he does some soul searching and becomes open to the idea of trying to grow as a person maybe there could be a chance. But by the posts I have been reading I doubt it. Seems to me like if people don't grow up by a certain time and they show no incentive to do so, its not going to happen. My dad is like a 57 year old teenager. Im sorry you had to go through all of that right after losing your father. its probably better to deal with it on your own then dealing with that plus your ex being so cold to you.

((((mental floss))))