yeah, I would be pretty offended.

I regret not standing up to my children's father's parents. They ruled keeping there distance from their grand daughter despite being 3 1/2 bocks away (of course until a boy child arrived). I wish I had then some back bone.

I am trying to think of things to say and they all seem to be passive aggressive and non-confrontational. their reasons are kooky but nevertheless unacceptable. How do you feel about something on the lines of, "I realise you had your reasons but both the child and I were sorry that you did not come. We would have like to have seen you there. We needed to see you there."

Keep us posted.