I also had a strong bias toward males for most relationships: friends, mentors, doctors, therapists, bosses, etc. I only saw two male Ts and have not been in therapy for a while now, but if I try again, most likely I would choose a female. I experienced the switch in everyday relationships and the two biggest differences were: I typically feel less motivated with females, but it is in part because I don't get obsessed interacting with them, so it remains more realistic. There is also a part that with the kinds of males that I tend to like, there is an element that I want to impress them, and that can keep me from addressing certain problem areas.