Oh, call me MF, everyone, it's fine, I'm getting a kick out of it. A little humor is very welcome just now!

Thanks, salukigirl, for the thoughtful response and suggestion. I did a stint in a bookstore, lo these many years ago, and The Road Less Traveled was a consistent seller - I've always meant to take a look at it and never quite got around to it. That's probably a really good idea.

Perna and AAAAA, too funny... I'm so glad I stumbled upon this site. Everyone has been so warm and caring. That is especially welcome right now as I don't feel I can dump too much of this relationship stuff on those close to me, as they are also dealing with the loss of my father. It's really great to have found such a supportive place to blow off some steam - and find the funny.

"Like reading a suspense novel unfold," I love it. Yes, I will hold fast. Thank you.

Haven't heard anything from him today. Maybe it finally clicked.