Thanks so much for your replies, Suggestions and support. We are going to spend the weekend packing and throwing stuff away. We have a lot of **** and need to downsize. We will get the Sunday paper tomorrow and see what jobs and apartments are advertised. My mom doesn't have room for us to stay there. My son is going to stay with his girlfriend's family. He is 25 and needs to get his own place anyway. But as a mother I have a lot of guilt about that. We are so shocked about this, it was totally unexpected.