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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear
They are everywhere, in songs by my favourite artists as well 
I’m not going to say what my trigger words are
This “Life lesson” has been rammed down my throat by too many abusers including a therapist I paid many freakin ... too much money to,
Trust nobody
Sometimes I wish I was a hard, callous, horrible person .. then I wouldn’t be so hurt by the low “life” in this world
(Not about anyone on pc) |
For me it's easier to deal with triggering words than triggering actions. A long time ago I decided that words are just that, empty utterances that come from people in a nice way or not so nice way. It reflects who they are, not who I am. Remember the old saying about "sticks and stones"? I've found the best defense, for me, with people who use those words is to laugh about it. Especially if they are using the words to get a rise out of me or hurt me. Kind of deflates their agenda.
I'm glad you are a wise and kind bear.