((( HUGS ))) -

I am sorry for the hellish night-mare you are having to go thru due to the mental illness of a loved one...... please know that no one would fault you if you decide to leave for your own safety and peace of mind. You must take care of your self first while still supporting your husband in his decision to get help, but you are not required to remain in this situation physically - you can extend your support emotionally.