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Old Oct 14, 2017, 03:55 PM
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Originally Posted by ruby2011 View Post
And are people usually more understanding of these children than they are of me? I tried to tell my supervisor that I had good intentions and I only meant to look up to her. She wouldn't hear it. And now, she refuses to acknowledge me at all when she sees me. She ignores me and w/e horrible things she wanted to say to me, she sends an hourly manager to tell me. It's like she's avoiding all interactions with me at all.

I do accept responsibility for my actions though. I only now learned my behavior is wrong even though all others I've looked up to also hated me. I'm just scared of people now.
People tolerate children much better because children aren't expected to know better. Adults are expected to behave. Just imagine 50 year olds throw temper tantrums like 2 year olds. No one will tolerate that from a grown up

It's understandable though that you aren't intentionally behaving in this manner. But you need to make an effort to learn. I don't think anyone hates you. They just don't need or want tolerate bad behavior. Don't worry about them. Just make an effort to behave. Attend therapy. Talk to a psychiatrist. Talk to case worker