People like to ask crap.

I've been told the kind of nonsense many times in my life. I had plenty of time periods in my life when I absolutely had no time for dating. Ex. Work all day, in grad school at night, have a teen at home and have involved hobby (the kind of where you compete and exhibit etc) and friends and family demanding of my time. No way no how I had even one night a week to go on a date. Yet people were repeatedly asking why I am not dating.

I was asked why I wasn't getting married. No amount of explanations that I am divorced and have no intentions to remarry that quick helped. Ugh. Oh when I did marry second time people asked why I wasn't having a big wedding ugh ugh

I'd ignore questions and change the topic. People are nosy!!