I basically never feel the need to do it for myself. It is all about others. But this year my need to please others or care in any way about what they think has left and meant all of the care of my home and myself has taken a huge hit. I just dont care anymore and thats not just when I'm depressed either. My husband sometimes tells me that I should really have a shower or change my clothes that day so that helps keep me on track. That sounds really ridiculous lol