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Oct 15, 2017, 11:50 AM
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Originally Posted by Shazerac
Well plans change. Or rather you changes them by agreeing to care for the fish. I can see how you would feel obligated to watch your nieces fish because you live there and that is thoughtful.
However.....your boyfriends comment about it being boring with nothing to do there raises a red flag for me. At best it's kind of self centered. Worse yet, he's implying that spending time with you out in the country is boring. I would be taken aback by such a comment.
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This kind of bothered me too, because it's only for 5 days, and spending some alone time chilling with you in a nice house isn't exciting enough for him? I mean, maybe it was just an off-hand comment that he made without thinking, I don't know.
I think that this would be a good time to maybe get some space and spend the 5 days apart.
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