There is overlap between some of the pd’s.

There are too many mean people in the world who seem to enjoy judging anyone they think is different. I try to feel sorry for those people because they have different problems.... .

“Avoidant pd” - “socially inept” - what is that? Who is to judge someone else as “socially inept” ?

(maybe a sociopath with no feelings)

If you have a service provider who is competent they can make a diagnosis having got to know you