Yzen,
Thank you for this.
You're absolutely right. It is sometimes just really difficult for me to get out of my head, look at the bigger picture and, as super unflattering as this is, remember that the entire universe is not centred around me.
We aren't really talking much right now because she needs a lot of space but when we do, I'm going to follow your suggestion.
Thank you so much for taking the time to respond.
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Originally Posted by Yzen
Sometimes you can start to sense something is wrong in a relationship when it has nothing to do with the relationship. For example, the other person could be having problems with family or work or school and is distracted from your relationship. The distraction could cause them to act differently.
Can you ask them if things are ok between the two of you? It takes a lot to ask because there is that fear it could be over, but you might find out for sure where the 'distance' is coming from. I hope they are not wanting it to end and are preoccupied with something else.
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