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Originally Posted by Purple,Violet,Blue
I didn't mean to sound flippant, saying women find 'afraid of love' attractive. It was insensitive, and I'm sorry.
The thing is, you will be all over the place for a while. It's just the way it is. We're all the same when it comes to getting over someone.
Time does work, I promise.
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I used harsh language on my reply. I apologize. It just doesn't make sense that anyone would find someone in grieving attractive. Not your actions, but my reactions, were the problem therein. Most things people do don't make sense to me anyway.
I'm going to outright ask this lady at yoga tonight just to hold me. I trust her and I think she understands loneliness very well, because we talk about our crappy lives openly and hers has a lot of it too. Before someone accuses, it's not at all about sex. I just want comfort, to be held, and allowed to cry. I think if I'm 100% honest about it that she'll like the idea for her own benefit too. She is married but her husband doesn't even live 75 miles near her. This is only about needing comfort. Is this such a terrible idea?