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Originally Posted by SorryShaped
I used harsh language on my reply. I apologize. It just doesn't make sense that anyone would find someone in grieving attractive. Not your actions, but my reactions, were the problem therein. Most things people do don't make sense to me anyway.
I'm going to outright ask this lady at yoga tonight just to hold me. I trust her and I think she understands loneliness very well, because we talk about our crappy lives openly and hers has a lot of it too. Before someone accuses, it's not at all about sex. I just want comfort, to be held, and allowed to cry. I think if I'm 100% honest about it that she'll like the idea for her own benefit too. She is married but her husband doesn't even live 75 miles near her. This is only about needing comfort. Is this such a terrible idea?
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I think what it is that some women find a man who is hurt as sort of a challenge. I would want to be only with a man who is grieving a lost love and comfort him as a friend. Some would want to take it further and I don't admire that
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