I'm sorry about your situation, but it seems really clear to me. As you say, your friend talks about her problems all the time, and you just once, so to the celebrity the friend's problems are much more visible and urgent.

To me your problems sound absolutely valid to talk about, although, you know, depending on the celebrity's situation and how many messages or whatever he gets, if you both start talking on the same level, it might get overwhelming for him... And I guess, since you already feel about it this way, it might be hard to approach him in a manner that wouldn't come out jealous or whatever...

Yeah... Have you talked to your friend about this?